What to Do When the Other Parent Files an RFO
Being served with a Request for Order can be unsettling, especially when it asks to change custody or support. The most important thing to know is that the clock starts right away.
Your response is usually filed on form FL-320, Responsive Declaration to Request for Order. It generally must be filed and served at least 9 court days before the hearing. If support or fees are at issue, you'll also need a current FL-150 Income and Expense Declaration.
In the FL-320, you can:
• Agree to some or all of the requested orders
• Disagree, and explain why
• Propose different orders of your own
A strong response addresses each request directly, with specific facts rather than general complaints. If the other parent made claims you dispute, answer them calmly and attach supporting documents, such as texts, school records or exchange logs.
I've seen parents lose ground simply by not responding, or by filing late. Even if you plan to attend the hearing, a written response makes sure the judge has your side before you walk in.
Related reading: [how to write a declaration for family court](link to Post 21).
If you've been served with an RFO, call me at 877-4CA-FCLS (877-422-3257) for a free consultation.